Vita Sackville-West to Virginia Woolf

... I am reduced to a thing that wants Virginia. I composed a beautiful letter to you in the sleepless nightmare hours of the night, and it has all gone: I just miss you, in a quite simple desperate human way. You, with all your undumb letters, would never write so elementary a phrase as that; perhaps you wouldn't even feel it. And yet I believe you'll be sensible of a little gap. But you'd clothe it in so exquisite a phrase that it should lose a little of its reality. Whereas with me it is quite stark: I miss you even more than I could have believed; and I was prepared to miss you a good deal. So this letter is really just a squeal of pain. It is incredible how essential to me you have become. I suppose you are accustomed to people saying these things. Damn you, spoilt creature; I shant make you love me anymore by giving myself away like this--but oh my dear, I can't be clever and stand offish with you; I love you too much for that. Too truly. You have no idea how stand offish I can be with people I don't love. I have brought it to a fine art. But you have broken down my defenses. And I really resent it.